How to Win Big in the off limit Industry
A few times throughout the past month, I have heard the phrase “off-limits.” That sounds like a good thing, right? But I have to admit, it might be off-limits when I am in college, on the job, or out at a bar. I would never want any of my friends to know what I did in my off-limits time.
Off-limits is a term that has been around for a while, but as technology has grown we have slowly developed the ability to access what’s on someone’s mind. As technology has been able to access our minds, we are able to control what we see, hear, and feel, while also creating new information and ideas we never would have thought of. That’s why these off limits moments have become so valuable to people.
The ability to access our minds via technology has become so pervasive that we are now allowed to be in the same physical space that we have always been in. To be able to control our own minds is to have control over our own behavior. We are in the same world, but we can now be in different places. Whether its a bar, a mall, or a restaurant, its no longer a place where you have to go in a certain direction. You can be in a completely different space.
People are now empowered to access themselves. We can be anywhere at any time. We have become so familiar with the idea of control that we can almost forget that we are now in control of our lives. It is a scary thought, but it is a fact.
We are so used to not being in control of who we are that we don’t even realize who we are. We assume that we are the person responsible for everything that happens to us. When it is actually us that are the ones responsible for what happens to us, we are terrified. We fear that we may have done something to make things bad for ourselves that we can’t undo.
But even in situations where control really does slip, the fear is all the same. This is a real fear for many of us. We are afraid that we will do something crazy or wrong or that we will get our hopes up too high and then some bad thing will happen. We never take a step back and truly look at what we have become. We never look at ourselves and see all the things we have lost control of. We don’t even realize we have lost control of ourselves.
It’s probably true that we are a lot more vulnerable to negative influences in our lives than we think. We cant undo something if it happened to us, so we can only try to move forward, and that only works if we have some control over our own lives.
I think there are two types of people who feel vulnerable to negative influences in their lives. The first is the “off-limits” type. I’ve been a part of this type for quite some time. I’m a lot more afraid of my own mortality than I am of anything negative that will happen to me. And I’ve seen plenty of it happen to others.
The second type is the on-limit type. This is the type that I think is always a little more on-limit and is always looking for a way out. This type gets so much negative feedback in the world that they feel as if they have to hide, because if anyone finds out they will never recover from the pain. I think this type has a fear of death that is bigger than any fear they had before.
I think if this type ever becomes popular, they are going to die a lot. The reason I say that, is because of the way they act. Off-limit people have a way of acting like they are so much better than others. They don’t care what they are being said by others. They don’t care if they offend others. They don’t care that they are not accepted by others. Basically, they act better than anyone else and everyone feels it.